I think of you all but it's too late to call, you've put the kids to bed and you've set the alarm : what happens to the connection, of friendship, when you've got a family, and i'm just a bundle of impetuous inclinations : my mother got married at the age i am now, it wasn't long before she was with child : boyd the bachelor, joined to, the spinster o'donovan, at least that's what they called her